How I quit smoking after 27 years

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Well I started smoking at the age of 12 call it peer pressure if you like or maybe I started to be cool who knows. I smoked till the age age 40 and I had tried many time before until I found out he secret to quit. Well for starters there is two habits you must break in order to win. The first one being the physical habit of putting that cigarette to your mouth. So in order to accomplish this you are going to want to keep your lighter that you have been using to "light up" with as it will serve as a tool to calm you. You will carry this lighter with you all day from the time you wake till the time you go to sleep and you will just spin it in your hand repeatedly and this will give your hand something to do which will help calm you. Secondly I used the nicotine patch made by Nicoderm and I started the patch for people who smoke a pack or more a day cause at the time I was smoking a pack to a pack and a half daily. So before we go any farther I must tell you that the patch will not work if you do not know how to use it properly so I am going to tell you how to use it so it will work for you as it did for me. Well it makes a difference where you place the patch as most people like myself wanted to put it on your thigh or on your bicep so the problem with areas like these are that you are always moving and it makes your muscles flex and hence stretch which makes the patch come away from the skin and therefore no nicotine transfers from the patch to your skin so it then leaves you craving nicotine since you are not getting it from the patch and most can't handle this craving and peel the patch off and go for the pack of smokes. You see when you put the patch on and peel it off you will notice it will not stick a second time because wen you peel it off it takes a complete layer of dry skin off your body in the area that you stuck it too and this is the reason it will not stick a second time. So where do you place the patch to prevent if from stretched off your skin through out your daily activities. Well you wanna place on you upper chest above the breast area so that the patch can lay flat on that area of skin and it most movements you make with your arms will not make your muscles there flex enough to cause the patch to come away from the skin. So now you know the placement of the patch. Now one more thing and that is the timing. Wat I mean by the timing is as follows. My routine would be that every morning when I woke I would take a shower and before entering the shower I would remove the patch from my chest that I slept with from the day before. When I was out of the shower I would put a new patch on because when you wake is when you crave the nicotine the most and the patch would be fresh and then I would go the rest of the day with this patch and when I was home after work and it neared bedtime the patch would not be so strong to prevent side effects like nightmares ... so they say. So essentially every morning that was my routine for changing my patch and by the way I rotated the patch from one side of my chest to the other the next day etc. After like three weeks of this routine one morning I woke and went to pull off my old patch only to find it was not there because the day before when I took my am shower I forgot to put a patch on after the shower so I said to myself "Wow I mad it a whole day with no smokes or patch and challenged myself to try and do it another day to make it two days in a row and I accomplished that and then I went for the third day and then the fourth etc. And here I am 5 years later and still not smoking. So this is my story about ow I quit the most useless habit I have ever and I am happy to say people can smoke in front of me to this day but it does not compel me to start again and that I finally rid of this in my life and never stop trying to quit as I tried man times before I finally succeeded. I am here for you all... :-)

 
By Mark1979 on Tue, 09-27-11, 22:19

BadBoy, I can not tell you how much I appreciate this post. I have been trying, with patches, gum, lozenges, Chantix and anything else I could get my hands on. I too started at twelve. I am thirty two now, and have recently been diagnosed with a genetic blood clotting disorder. Suffice it to say smoking is a BAD idea for me. I have to ask, I have an overwhelming amount of stress in my life now. How did you cope with stress as you quit, and after you were a non smoker? I am going to be a non-smoker as of 01OCT11 come hell or high water. I could use any additional advise you or anyone else might have.

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By Badboy on Wed, 09-28-11, 06:07

Mark I can see your determined to beat smoking after reading your post. I forgot to mention beyond what I have already posted that I was going to the gym Mon-Wed-Thurs evenings after work to workout knowing that when I quit smoking I might gain weight. So what I did was start working out 3 months before I quit and then after I quit I continued to go to the gm and it allowed me to rid myself of all the stress from days gone by. it also is a great way to get healthy and with all the endorphins running through my body from working out it also helped keep my mind of smoking. Mark its easy to quit you just have to put your to it and the firs 10 days are the hardest but once you make it past that its all down hill from their. I also forgot to mention since quitting I feel so much better and because of this feeling I know I will never start again. Best of luck to you Mark I am supporting your quitting efforts so if you need any advice or someone to talk to about it I as here and good luck to you. :)

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By Andrew2265 on Fri, 09-30-11, 17:04

Badboy,
Since you have quit, what are the best things that have come out of it? i guess what I am asking is, what do I have to look forward to once I am done. I CAN'T WAIT TO BE IN YOUR SHOES!

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By Badboy on Fri, 09-30-11, 18:44

Well for starters you gonna get your sense of taste and smell back and food is gonna taste great,. However I must warn you about that because since food will taste great you may be tempted to eat more of it so watch that. One of the things I did was get a membership at one of the local gyms near me and start a workout campaign of my own and stuck to it. I basically worked out three nights a week after work because I knew when I quit smoking that it would slow down my metabolism because the nicotine is a stimulant that gives you a fake energy and since it was gonna be missing I needed to start training my metabolism to stay high so I would not gain weight. So I started this regimen a couple months before I actually started the patch and continued to work out when I officially quit smoking and started using the patch. The workouts actually calmed me cause it gave me an outlet to release my stress and it actually calmed me and helped me keep my mind of smoking. Also the first 30 to 60 days you may have a cough that is accompanied with a lot of flem that will have stuff in it you have not seen since last xmas. This will be your bodies way of releasing and clearing out your lungs and when this goes away you won't have that heavy feeling in your lungs that you have now. I also felt like I had this fog so to speak around my head that was lifted when I quit. In other words I felt like I was thinking much more clearly and my mind was much sharper. The best part is after you have quit say 3-4 months done the road you will know when you meet a smoker and the first thing that is gonna come to your mind is "I used to smell like that?!" like what you ask? Like a stale nasty ashtray which right now you may not smell very well because your sense of smell is almost non existent compared to where its gonna be after you quit and lets not forget about how much more energy your gonna have. Your gonna have some much more energy and your gonna feel more alive. Also if you are single and looking expect to get noticed more because you do not smell like a ashtray. Gotta eat some dinner now so I Iook forward to hearing your reply. :)

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By Andrew2265 on Sat, 10-01-11, 15:50

Badboy.
Thank you so much for that. I am going through bad withdraw now. Your words have calmed me down.

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By Badboy on Sun, 10-02-11, 17:07

Andrew anytime it gets tough just think its gonna be when you get control back. The problem with the nicotine is it gets on our back and after a while makes us think its in control, however as each day pass's you are gonna have more and more control. And it helps to talk about it as well but you are on the right path so keep it going cause your gonna do it. :)

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By galed on Sun, 10-09-11, 19:06

what a great accomplishment I hope to be where you are in awhile I know that it isn't going to be easy and that is scary.thank you for the motivation

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By westernoutlaw on Sun, 10-09-11, 19:38

Just FYI I hear taking a xanax 1 mg a day will help you quit smoking.

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By kitten on Tue, 10-18-11, 15:18

I have a quit date for 11/17 (great american smoke out). In the meantime, I'm trying to cut down but having a hard time...I'm so scared to do this again. I had quit about 5 years ago for almost a year and ended up going back after my brother died. Had that "oh I'll just have one" after his funeral and that was it...I was suddenly a smoker again. I've been smoking for close to 30 years (a life time) and I wanna quit so bad but am so addicted...it's so a part of my life. I remember how good I felt during that year I had quit...I felt so empowered...like I could do anything. I want that feeling back but dread going through the pain & grief of that first few weeks. Praying for strength.

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By westernoutlaw on Tue, 10-18-11, 16:22

Hello Kitten,

I am here if you need support and someone to talk with, I am here to be your support system if you want it.

Chris

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